I am 37 and African-American. I typically date Caucasian women 5-15yrs older than me. My conventional wisdom creeps into my head that many older, white women have no experience with interracial dating and this could be a major roadblock to both dating and a strong relationship I live in the Twin Cities and this is the most diverse city and accepting of interracial relationships that I have seen.
What advice can you give me on how to attract those quality cougars that are open to dating inter racially? There are a lot of wannabe cougars but clearly they are not in the league of those true cougars. Many women think because they are older and look decent and date younger that makes them cougars, which it doesn't.
I consider myself a charming, witty, beguiling, confident man but need a few pointers to get me to the next level. Tony