I am a 36 year-old woman who is heavily involved with a 22 year old. I have been divorced for 2 1/2 yrs., and have 2 beautiful little girls. I’ve been seeing my gorgeous, younger guy for almost a year and a half.
When we met, I was only divorced a short while and was merely looking for a good time, and so was he. I must admit, I am a beautiful, sexy woman, who knows what I want, and have a reputation as a heartbreaker. I have always refused to let a man make a fool out of me, because I have always known my value. I am, however, deeply in love with my cub. We are so close, best friends, and have the best sex imaginable.
I tried, for the first year, to end our relationship, but he is so head-strong, and has a way with me, like no other. He refused to let me go. My family loves him, and his family loves me. I have actually become extremely close to his mother. He is so wonderful to my girls. He has really become like a second father to them. He is not a big partier, and always, always comes straight home to me. He has NEVER put me off so he can be with his friends, and I have NEVER had a reason not to trust him.
He says he wants to marry me, eventually, and wants us to have a child together. I never bring up marriage, or really discuss it with him at all. He is a very hard worker, and his mother says, he always has been. He helps me with my bills around the house, and he is my handy-man. He truly is an old-soul, and the best partner I could possibly ask for. He says he had been drinking, and partying since he was 15, and that it made him miserable.
I would love to marry him in a couple of years, but, rightfully so, am scared to death of making a mistake. I have read your past blogs about men not really being ready until 25. If this is wrong for me and my girls, I need to figure it out now. Thanks so much, Lucia...I really enjoy your blog. Felicia