Thursday, May 8, 2014

Is It Wrong To Have Sex With a Cougar?


Hey Lucia,

My friends think I’m crazy because I’m 21 years old and I’ve been having GREAT sex with a 52 year old divorced woman.  We both know it’s just for sex.  Is this wrong?  Joe

Read the answer at The Cougar Club


  1. Your best bet friend is keep the relationship.Your girlfriend probably has not tasted youthful intimacy for a long time and you filling in the gap makes her feel young and wanted again.

    In any relationship ,the last advice you should listen to are those of your friends in this case.

    You are of course old enough to take a decision.

    good luck


  2. I Agree with the last Comment and Lucia. Do you! Don't allow anyone to change or sway your decision unless it's yourself internally saying it's not for you. You know the inside feeling I'm speaking of. I have someone younger in my life and it's a Wonderful experience the sex is Beyond anything I've ever experienced in my 47 years of life. But what makes me WOW!!! is the attention and conversations we have. He introduced me to his Mother within a week of our relationship and she is very receptive and supports our relationship. Though we don't know where this relationship will end thing we both know is that we both are enjoying each other,respecting each other and giving the best energies of fun tenderness and excitement that will allow. Good Luck and never allow anyone to decipher your feelings and emotions because of your Cougar choice she's a woman watch her ROAR!!! Your gonna Love it!! (A)

  3. READ PLEASE!!-im 24 years old my ex-girlfriend had a fling with her docter its been a year and the would is so small that i now met his wife.AMAZING beautiful,intellectual, and over is a loyal wounderful women.Would it be wrong to have have a sexual exp and maybe more with her?she is 47..

  4. I'm a 20 year old guy and I LOVE cougars. Girls my age are complicated; I don't know why and I'm not going to even bother figuring it out because I don't care. All I know is that the best sex I've ever had in my life were with women 30+. They know what they're doing, they don't complicate things, they understand men and most importantly - they know how to have a great time. It's not just the sex, they actually know how to communicate and have a civil/inmate conversation that doesn't revolve around the color of their nails or ex-boyfriend. They're super horny and coupled with my exploding testosterone levels - it's just the recipe for pure bliss!

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  6. A lady 30 years my senior once boffed my brains out. Still remember her 40 years later. Go for it.