Tuesday, May 27, 2014

Will Dating Cougars Mess Me Up?

Hello Lucia,

I’m a 20 year old male who’s in a great sexual relationship with a very sexy and gorgeous 40 year old woman. We're not boyfriend/girlfriend but just hanging out.  Do you think this will mess me up later on when I move past her, if we don’t create a real, full relationship?  I don’t want to have a hard time adjusting down the road with someone closer to my age.  Joe

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  1. Lucia - you're advice is right on! Being single at 50 I went out with a few 20 year olds just because they wanted to and I believe age is "just" a number. But for real love - there'd be a lot of obstacles and even if there were real love...it wouldn't mean succesful blending of lives. I'm glad you're so pro dating and yet realistic about it!

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