I'm 23 years and there is a 40ish, extremely hot lady at the gym who dresses to kill and seduce. She does wear a ring or should I say more than one. How can I find out if she is a Cougar? Sean
The fact that she dresses to "kill and seduce" as you say (although, shouldn't it be the other way around), could mean one of two things: 1) She is indeed a Cougar who is on the prowl and wants to attract as much attention as possible or 2) She's in a relationship or married and not getting enough attention, so she uses her clothes to make her feel wanted and attractive, but she has no intentions of going any further.
As usual, the only way to know if she's available is to talk to her. When people are available, they're more willing to socialize at the gym, so strike up a conversation.
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