Monday, January 27, 2014

My Cougar Wants to Get Serious

                                                                                                   

Hi Lucia,


I have a relationship that I want to last but I’m not sure if it can.  I’m a 20 year old male dating a 43 year old woman. We get along great, have an amazing sex life, but now she wants to get a lot more serious. I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to do that or not. What do you think?  Andy
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Monday, January 20, 2014

My Cougar Never Calls

                                                                              

Dear Lucia,


I am dating a 37 year old woman who I feel is leading me on... she always text messages me but never calls.  It seems as though if I don’t call her, she won’t stay interested.  How can I find out what she wants from me...I want something serious!  I don’t know how I should be to get her!! I am 29 and have always dated older women.  Louis
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Monday, January 13, 2014

Meeting a Cougar at the Gym

                                                                          


Hi Lucia,

I see this woman almost everyday at the gym. I'm 24 and she looks like she could be 35 at the most. We constantly exchange looks throughout the 1.5 hours we're there. However, it's like high school where if I catch her, she'll look away quickly or if she knows I'm looking, she'll do something sexy in my direction!

I finally found the courage to greet her and ask for her name (outside of the gym for privacy, and no eyes!) as she was leaving to go back to work. She faced me with the biggest smile and gave me her name (no hesitation). I gave her mine, shook her hand and told her it was a pleasure to finally meet her and that she was gorgeous! The smile she had never left her face throughout the conversation, even as she was walking up the stairs as we parted.

How can I tell for sure if she is interested so I can make my move? Are there any other signs I can look for? How can I grab her attention/interest more? Marcus

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Friday, January 3, 2014

My Cougar Disappeared

          



Dear Lucia,

About three months ago I began dating an older woman who happens to be 35 years old. I am 25. We've been on a couple of dates since then and have been getting on just great, but in the past month I have not heard from her at all.

I'm guessing it might just be my insecurities, but I feel that I may have been given the flick! I've tried getting in contact with via email and by phone but alas to no avail. I've really fallen for this woman. 

Ossie

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Thursday, January 2, 2014

My Cougar Won't Return My Calls

Hi Lucia,

About three months ago I began dating an older woman who happens to be 39 years old.  I am 27.  We've been on a couple of dates since then and have been getting on just great, but in the past month I have not heard from her at all. 

I'm guessing it might just be my insecurities, but I feel that I may have been given the flick!  I've tried getting in contact with her via email and by phone but alas to no avail. I've really fallen for this woman.  Ossie

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Wednesday, January 1, 2014

Happy New Year!

Wishing you a happy, healthy and prosperous new year!   Thanks for your support.