Dear Lucia,
I met a young man 23 years younger than myself online playing a game. We ended up falling for each other 3 months into the game and then 3 months later we met each other.
We had so much in common even with the age difference. It was a long distance relationship but we fell in love. We were together for a year after we met, and then we both started feeling strange about the way people would look at us when we held hands or hugged.
After a few months, we decided it would be best to just be friends, and it has been so difficult. I love him so much; want to be with him all the time and I just don’t know what to do anymore.
Is this normal? I was married for 25 years and never ever had the type of relationship with my ex that I had and still have with my friend. We laugh, cry, tell each other things that no one else ever knew. Can we still keep this relationship alive without the love making and still have the love exist? We both think we can, but others tell us we are just kidding ourselves. Cel
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