I have a relationship that I want to last but I’m not sure if it can. I’m a 20 year old male dating a 43 year old woman. We get along great, have an amazing sex life, but now she wants to get a lot more serious. I’m not sure if it’s a good idea to do that or not. What do you think? Andy
While I’m all for older women/younger men relationships, the age difference in this case is too great to even entertain the possibility of it becoming serious. You were still a teenager only a year ago. You have so much growing up to do and so many things to learn. You cannot be tied down to anyone at this age. I suggest you keep things as they are. If she’s not happy with that, then she has some growing up to do.